If you have something to say, it’s obviously much easier to get your message across if you’re a good communicator.
So what does it take to be a good communicator? You need to take on board some statistics, develop a few specific character traits and avoid various annoying habits.
The statistics? Research has shown the following: - only 7% of the message we transmit comes from the words we use - whereas 38% comes from the vocal intonation, the emphasis and the tone - and a massive 55% comes from body language, predominantly facial expression and hand movements.
The character traits? You need to develop the following abilities: - speak clearly and concisely - be friendly and empathic - sound both confident and respectful - remain open minded and be a good listener yourself.
The annoying habits? People are much more likely to listen if you: - don't mumble - don’t use slang such as “like”, actually”, “sort of”, “kinda” - don’t become so obsessed with the sound of your own voice that people automatically switch off when you open your mouth! #proteuscareermanagement #coach #attitude #personaldevelopment #communicationskills
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